Pastor Connect 2009

Mon, Jan 12, 2009

Articles In This Issue

Calvin and Chrysostom on Confessing Our Sins
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Fri, Dec 11, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
Pastor Connect 2009

Calvin and Chrysostom on Confessing Our Sins

Does a believer have to confess his or her sins to another believer for forgiveness? Most evangelicals would say no, but sometimes I wonder if our practices say otherwise. With resurging interest in ancient spiritual practices, confession to a priest is becoming more common, even among non-Catholics. Or consider accountability partnerships. While they can be healthy and helpful, there is a subtle danger that a believer's conscience will feel bound to confess to his or her accountability partner. Those who promote this kind of confession often quote James 5:16: "Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray ...

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Teach Your Team to Pray
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Tue, Nov 24, 2009
Bill Elliff
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Teach Your Team to Pray

Could there be anything more critical to the health of the team you lead than taking them into the presence of God? It is there that lives are adjusted, unity is gained, requests are granted, and the God of the universe is brought into the equation. But most pastors pray little . . . and their teams even less. One study showed that the average time American pastors spend in prayer is seven minutes a day. Praying with a team will not only help the regularity of your prayer life, it will foster an attitude of prayer in your team and ultimately your ...

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Watch the Dials on Your Dashboard
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Tue, Nov 10, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Watch the Dials on Your Dashboard

I recently re-read Wayne Cordeiro's wise and helpful book Leading on Empty: Refilling Your Tank and Renewing Your Passion. In chapter ten, Cordeiro discusses how airline pilots must constantly watch their instruments when flying, and how this pictures the twelve dials on the dashboard of his life that "meter vital systems essential to [his] health and success" (p. 175). I have adapted his list into categories, or "dials," to watch in my own life, and they are divided into three broader categories of personal (1-4), relational (5-8), and professional (9-12). I've also included a sampling of questions for ...

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Fri, Oct 30, 2009
Bill Elliff
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Creating Environments for Encountering God

Everything flows from the presence of the Lord. Everything.   If you have Him, you have everything you need. Without Him—His life, presence, provision, and power—you have nothing of importance. Our greatest concern as pastors should be simply this: Are we personally encountering God daily?   Our work as shepherds should be to bring people into environments where they too can encounter God, because only He changes lives. We must work hard to ensure that every part of our church creates an environment where God can freely dwell and do what only He can do.   What does it take to ...

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Missing Our Greatest Evangelistic Opportunities
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Wed, Oct 14, 2009
Bill Elliff
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Missing Our Greatest Evangelistic Opportunities

I was shocked. I couldn't believe such a simple act could open the doors for one of the best evangelistic opportunities we've seen in a long time. Our church leaders have been deeply impressed lately to aggressively add Acts 4:32 to our DNA. We have been challenging our people to follow the early church's example by holding their possessions loosely: "And the congregation of those who believed were of one heart and soul; and not one of them claimed that anything belonging to him was his own, but all things were common property to them." Nothing ...

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Why I'm Glad to Preach at Funerals
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Thu, Oct 1, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Why I'm Glad to Preach at Funerals

When I first entered the pastorate, I saw funerals as the "fine print" in my pastoral duties. I was expected to bury the deceased and comfort the grieving families, but it wasn't something I knew how to do, much less would enjoy. I still remember my first funeral. I had no idea how to minister to the family (I barely knew them) or how to organize a funeral service or what to say. Thankfully my dad, a veteran pastor who has preached at dozens of funerals, was visiting our home that week and was able to coach me on ...

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Fostering Citywide Unity
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Thu, Sep 17, 2009
Bill Elliff
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Fostering Citywide Unity

After forty years of pastoring, I've come to a startling conclusion: You cannot legislate or organize unity Over the years, I've been involved in multiple cooperative efforts in the cities where I've pastored. I have been amazed at the lack of genuine unity I've encountered. Attempts at creating unity usually center around someone's agenda--a concert, a crusade, etc. Although it may be a worthy idea, it often finds very little genuine spiritual traction. We find ourselves silently thinking, "I wonder what his agenda is? I don't know if I can join with him theologically ...

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Bodies Matter
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Fri, Sep 4, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Bodies Matter

As pastors, we often think of ourselves as spiritual practitioners, "physicians of the soul." And so we are. We are charged with keeping watch over the souls of our people (Heb. 13:17). And we are ministers of the new covenant, ministers of the Spirit (2 Cor. 3).

But we must beware of forgetting that all human spirituality is, by necessity, embodied spirituality. We are physical, earth-bound creatures, and all of our relating to God, Christ, the Spirit, the Word, and one another is defined by our physicality.

To treat people as if they are bodiless souls is to be ...

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The Narrow and Broad Roads of Preaching
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Thu, Aug 20, 2009
Bill Elliff
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The Narrow and Broad Roads of Preaching

It was a surprise and liberation. Years ago, while studying the men and women in Scripture, history, and daily life, I realized an amazing truth: Everyone is imbalanced. Look around and you will discover that there are no exceptions. Every effective man I admire is tremendously passionate about certain things but often excludes others. In sovereign wisdom and delightful creativity, God made us each different. When your mother's single cell met your father's single cell, each carrying 23 chromosomes, they merged into one single cell called "you." With the threads of that chromosomal mix, God knit you together ...

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Living with Intention:
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Fri, Aug 7, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Living with Intention:

Few men have impacted me through their writings as much as Jonathan Edwards, the eighteenth-century New England pastor-theologian God so greatly used in America's first Great Awakening. Edwards' writings and ministry uniquely combined keen, penetrating theological analysis with a profound depth of heartfelt devotion. While Edwards' iron-clad logic was unsurpassed, the clarity of his God-centered thinking was always joined with the intensity of God-centered affections. This unique combination of head and heart sweetened his letters, treatises, and sermons with the beauty of holiness. Perhaps one secret to Edwards' balance was his intentional living. Long before writing personal mission statements ...

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Thoughts on Content-Heavy Preaching
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Thu, Jul 23, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Thoughts on Content-Heavy Preaching

Occasionally, I hear that listening to my sermons is like trying to drink from a fire hydrant. Although I'm not sure whether that's a compliment or a correction, it has prompted some reflection. There are two ways of thinking about sermons. One is that they should be very streamlined in content, conveying only vital information to know and apply. The idea is that people only learn on a "need to know" basis, and that extraneous information hinders real learning.  I think there is some wisdom in this, which I probably need to heed more. (Although, believe me, I ...

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Sermons That Stick
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Thu, Jun 25, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Sermons That Stick

Pastors are communicators. We are charged with teaching and proclaiming life's most important message: the saving Word of the cross. As Paul said to Timothy, we are to "preach the word" (2 Tim. 4:2). Given this mandate, we should do everything we can to communicate in ways that really connect with people. We should want our sermons to stick.  A helpful book is Chip and Dan Heath's Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die, which explores six principles that make some ideas "sticky." While applying these principles is no substitute for powerful, Spirit-filled preaching ...

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Lessons from My First Pastorate
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Tue, Jun 9, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Lessons from My First Pastorate

My first pastorate was not very successful. It was a painful experience of less than two years that ended poorly and sent our family into a nine-month tailspin from which I sometimes wondered if we would recover. But the Lord is merciful. He taught us some valuable lessons, stretched our faith considerably, and graciously opened a new door of ministry in a church where we've happily served for the last six years. A wise mentor once encouraged me to write down the lessons learned from a trying experience. I've found that good counsel, so here are six lessons ...

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Fri, May 29, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Spurgeon on Christ-Centeredness

One of my heroes is Charles Haddon Spurgeon, the famous Baptist pastor of nineteenth century London. In reading Spurgeon, I am convinced that a secret behind his ministry's extraordinary fruitfulness and enduring legacy was his relentless focus on the person and work of Christ.


His Creed


Spurgeon's Christ-centered focus is evident in his first words spoken at the Metropolitan Tabernacle, which was built to accommodate the multitudes who came to hear him preach. Setting the tone of the thirty years of ministry which would follow, he said: "I would propose that the subject of the ministry in this ...

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Unconscious Humility
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Wed, May 13, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Unconscious Humility

In C. S. Lewis' classic The Screwtape Letters, the devilish Screwtape teaches his junior demon Wormwood the arts of tempting a Christian. In one of the letters, Screwtape expresses concern that Wormwood's "patient" has begun to develop humility. He is no longer self-confident. He is no longer making "lavish promises of perpetual virtue." He is simply hoping in daily, hourly grace. "This is very bad," says Screwtape. Then he gives this bit of instruction: "I see only one thing to do at the moment. Your patient has become humble; have you drawn attention to the fact? All virtues are ...

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Tue, Apr 28, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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If God Is Sovereign, Why Pray?

There is no theological issue more knotty than the relationship between divine sovereignty and human responsibility. And this is no mere academic question, for our understanding here (or lack thereof) significantly affects such practical areas as evangelism and prayer. Prompted by an ongoing correspondence regarding predestination and free will, a friend asked me these thought-provoking questions: 

  • If God already knows what will happen (and what choices will be made, etc.), can He change the outcome?
  • What is the purpose of prayer?
  • Can our prayers for someone's salvation actually make a difference? In a way, I don't want my ...

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Time Management
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Thu, Apr 16, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Time Management

“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil” (Eph. 5:15-16). Paul’s words alert us to the precious resource of time, our responsibility in our use of time, and the reason we should use time wisely.

The Resource of Time

A vital resource God has given us is time; or, as the NIV reads, “opportunity.” Kairos is one of two Greek words for “time” or “opportunity.”

It doesn’t refer to calendar time or clock time (chronos) but to an opportune or unique ...

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How to Make Wise Decisions, Part 2
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Thu, Apr 2, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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How to Make Wise Decisions, Part 2

Perhaps you've seen the old classic film "Tom, Dick and Harry." It's a humorous story in which Ginger Rogers plays a young woman faced with the difficult choice of deciding which of three suitors to marry.  Will she marry her old beau Tom, the dashing and handsome Dick, or romantic and charming Harry? She finds each attractive, but the telltale sign of the right match, as far as she is concerned, is whether she hears bells tolling when she is kissed!  That reminds me of how many believers put the weight of their choices on unreliable feelings and ...

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How to Make Wise Decisions
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Fri, Mar 20, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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How to Make Wise Decisions

I am amazed at the incredible variety of beverages available at Starbucks. The number of choices you have to make just to order a cup of coffee is almost staggering (at least 29 different blends to choose from!). This parallels what decision making is like in today's world. Never before has it been so complex. Individualization and globalization have driven people to make choices that others made for them throughout most of history. We choose who we will marry, when at one time most marriages were arranged. We choose where we will live, while most people used to live ...

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Pitfalls of Electronic Pastoring
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Thu, Mar 5, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Pitfalls of Electronic Pastoring

E-mail has its blessings. It is fast and efficient—a speedy way to send memos, set appointments, and make announcements. Our church is trying to make use of e-mail in positive ways. Three e-mail lists facilitate the schedule of the worship team, prayer requests and announcements for body life, and keeping up with sermon notes.

But e-mail also has its curses . . . because fast and efficient are two words you don’t want to describe your shepherding. Hurting sheep need to hear the voice and feel the touch of the shepherd. Straying sheep need the same. The temptation to solve problems ...

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How to Share the Gospel with Children
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Thu, Feb 19, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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How to Share the Gospel with Children

One of the church's greatest privileges and responsibilities is ministering to children. Whether the context is children's church, Sunday school, AWANA, VBS, or something else-and whether it's evangelism or discipleship-our greatest priority is teaching the gospel. Responding to Christ's work in repentance and faith is how children begin and mature in the Christian life. Sharing the gospel with children, however, is not simply presenting a flannel graph lesson and asking for a show of hands. In fact, statistics indicate that most children raised in the church abandon the faith after high school. This raises a question ...

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Tending the Soil
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Thu, Feb 5, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Tending the Soil

I was disillusioned with ministry. Two years into my pastorate of a small church, our leaders agreed to hold a weekend conference with a well known author and speaker. We promoted the event to our congregation and to area churches. We stocked our book table with this author's books. Hoping for a huge crowd for the Friday night and Saturday morning sessions, I was frustrated, embarrassed, and maybe a bit angry when only 30 or so people came. On vacation a week later, I came across these insightful and convicting words from Eugene Peterson: Congregation is the topsoil in ...

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Wed, Jan 21, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Sermonic Snares

It's dangerous to have a job that involves a lot of talking, for "when words are many, transgression is not lacking" (Proverbs 10:19). The jeopardy is doubled when one's vocation involves speaking on behalf of God. "Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness" (James 3:1). The life of a preacher includes many dangers. Following are three of these, which I'll call "sermonic snares."  1. Neglecting the text  Paul's injunction to Timothy belongs to us as well: "Preach the word ...

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Thu, Jan 8, 2009
Brian G. Hedges
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Embracing Community

If you have read the Pentateuch (the first five books of the Old Testament, also called Torah), then you know that, short of death, the most severe consequence for uncleanness or sin was banishment from the community. For example, the book of Leviticus mandated that a person with leprosy had to live outside the camp: The leprous person who has the disease shall wear torn clothes and let the hair of his head hang loose, and he shall cover his upper lip and cry out, "Unclean, unclean." He shall remain unclean as long as he has the disease. He is ...

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